Daddy’s Dresser

All of you who know me pretty well know that my Dad passed away about two and half years ago suddenly. It was definitely the toughest thing I have ever had to go through in my life thus far. As time passed after he died I went from not wanting to be reminded of it all to wanting to be reminded of him every day.  As hard and as difficult as it was I found myself wanting to be around things that reminded me of him and my childhood as much as possible. I wanted to remember him and be reminded of him as much as I possibly could. It somehow helped to ease the pain just a little bit.

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It was so incredibly difficult the day my siblings and I had to go up to his house after he passed and start cleaning it out. The emotions on that day I will never forget. I never would of been able to get through that day without my siblings, they are LITERALLY my living angels on earth. There were a few items of his that I knew that I wanted and some that just didn’t mean as much to me. It was pretty hilarious because we all had something very different in mind that we wanted to take or keep of his. For me it was a hall tree and a dresser, two furniture pieces that my dad cherished more than anything. Everything my Dad had kept over the years were pieces that meant something to him. He was never one to hold on to something just because, he kept the precious things that to him were irreplaceable.

I actually decided when we first got there that I didn’t want the dresser, it was just shot. It was a sad dresser that had been loved to death. The handles were falling off of it, it had paint all over it, and it just looked like it had seen better days. I just kept coming back to it because every time I opened a drawer it smelt of my dad. It smelt like a fireplace which is the memorable scent that is the definition of him. I kept brainstorming ways that i could redo it or make it pretty again. I knew how special this dresser was to my Dad. It was a dresser that my grandpa had given to him and my mom back when they were married. It was a dresser that made every move with him over and over. It was the dresser he would hide his gold coins in under his socks. It was the dresser that I as a kid would search through if i wanted to see some of my dads special satchels full of coins, rings, and special mementos that were meaningful to him.

I am going to be honest and say that it took me this long to get this dresser redone. Since my dad passed away I have sold, bought, and renovated a new house, had a baby, and I work full time. Phew! We just really did not have room for it at our old house either so I was waiting until after our move and renovation to work on it. I also needed time to decide if I wanted to paint it or just restore it. I needed time to think as I knew it had to be perfect. I knew it would really modernize it if I painted it and I am sure I would have loved it but it would of turned it into a completely different dresser. I finally decided I wanted to keep it true and original. I wanted to be continually reminded of the dresser I have always known and remembered. One that I know my Dad would love as well. This quick and easy DIY project was completely done in less than 2 hours while Beck was napping. My kind of project!

I removed the old drawer pulls and cleaned all the dust and grime off of it. I then sanded it lightly with 000 Steel wool pads.  I wiped it down entirely to remove some of the wool that was left over. I then applied this AMAZING product called Restor-A-Finish. This product is so unbelievable and it only costs $9.98. I picked a color that looked closest to color of the dresser. I then applied the Restor-A-Finish using a steel wool pad. You can just apply with a rag but I recommend using a steel wool pad if your piece is pretty scuffed or scratched. This product will restore your old color in seconds. It’s such an awesome product and I am so glad I found it because it will literally restore any old wood piece and make it look brand new. You better believe I will be on the hunt to find old reclaimed woods to use this product on. I then shopped around for some modern drawer pulls. I wanted something in a brushed gold as I new brass would look way to 80’s for this dresser. I was also looking for something affordable as drawer pulls can be pricey. I found these brushed champagne pulls at my local Home Depot and they were only $ 5.98 ea. and they were perfect.

I added a gold mirror on top to tie the pulls and mirror in and to modernize it and make it fit in perfectly to master bedroom. I absolutely love how it turned out. For a total of $72.48 I had this beauty back to looking perfection.  Lately I have been so obsessed with mixing modern and vintage. It just makes my little design heart happy as I am so passionate about both styles in home décor. I hope you guys loved how this quick this DIY project turned out and I hope it has inspired you to try this out and restore something old that may just need a little love.  I am not sure how I could ever survive life without nap time?! I try to utilize it as much as possible to do something that will make my little design heart happy. I am now reminded of my Dad everyday and I can’t help but smile from ear to ear knowing he would be so proud of me and this beautiful piece.
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7 thoughts on “Daddy’s Dresser”

  1. What a great post, Andie. I lost my mother just 6 weeks ago, she was only 66, and still had a lot of life left to live. Losing a parent truly is one of the most painful experiences one has to go through, but having a great support system is incredibly comforting. I have some of my Mother’s items in my possession that I’d love to do something with, just as you have done with you Dad. He would be very proud of you!

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  2. Andy, that is absolutely beautiful! You are right, your dad would love the way that dresser turned out, but not as much as he loved the girl that brought that old thing back to life.

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  3. You did such a great job on the dresser girl!! I lost my dad when I was 16, you’re right definitely the hardest thing to go through. I keep a few special things with me and have shared them with my girls so they can learn a little about him here and there!!

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